About me

38yrs SWF divorce is almost final; been 2yrs. I enjoy the outdoors;mainly warmer weather; hiking;walking;camping; fishing;etc.. I enjoy just sitting on the porch and hanging out as well; not having to go anywhere. Love to BBQ; grill outside. I miss this alot. I have a cat; not into k9's; just that I'm allergic to them. Im an upfront type of gal; have my own mind; but also respect that of others as well. Thats alot to do with it; respect; honesty; faithfulness;loyalty; trust.... I have all of that; and more; but I'm not easy. Been thru many games; not interested in them; or anyone who plays them. Mature I am more so emotionally. I look very young for my age; can you handle someone looking so young; and treat them with respect. For now its a curse..... perhaps at 80 it will be a blessing :) I must say this now; I haven't upgraded my membership just yet; so reading messages and ex. profiles; Im now allowed until I do upgrade. Unless I get messages from a paid member; I cannot read your messages; sorry. :)

About you

looking for a good man (42-55)Well; let's see; have to honest;respecful; show some sensitivity;trust; be mature. I enjoy being funny with someone; but when I mean mature; I shouldn't have to explain it. enjoys a cat; has similuar interests; activities etc... Definately has time to be with me; like has off weekends;works first shift...... definately has time to share and lives very close. I'm looking for someone who already has thier life in order; mainly grown kids; knows how to keep his own home; so that I know what is missing in his life is a companion; someone to share his life with; and has time to do so. And that I won't thought of a as a maid; or any other games; I have been thru. tough ad; I write; yes....... only because Ive been thru immature men. I know what I want; what Im looking for. Im hoping someone can see past this and see what I have inside that is what I have alot to offer. Having time to spend with someone is very important to me; and living close. thanks :) Please no married men; If I wanted affairs I would be playing the game. So bug out please. I'm not interested in those that are attached; or living with anyone; looking for that real mature man; that is unattached and has his life in order. thks :)