About me

Hi; I'm Dave; an average guy; 5' 8' tall; 170 pounds; in the US Air Force for the past 21 years; before that; 3 in the US Army as an airborne pathfinder; and graduated from a military academy high school that I entered at 13. I'm in the middle of a nasty divorce after finding my wife in bed with a man 20 years her senior when I came back home from Iraq 3 days early last year. She left; and took my four kids with her and 'grandpa stinky' as my kids call the old goat that has two hearing aids and dentures. Obviously; I didn't find my 'second half-soul mate' with her eh? Well; that's exactly what I would like to do here. I'm a damned good chef; I build Mitsubishi all wheel drive turbocharged race cars and engines; and I have three different cars that I race on weekends during the summer. The track is 15 minutes from my house. I am a great chef; plumber; carpenter; electrician; decent drywaller and old house restorer. I build computers for disabled people; and I'm a network administrator for the US Air Force. I give a great massage and footrub. I'm also a good father to my kids; and love them more than life itself. However; after catching my soon to be ex; I went and got myself fixed; so no more babies for me. I love kids; pets; and the outdoors. I like to hunt and fish; I'm a rather inactive tennis player; but with a sportive wife; I could get back into shape fairly easily. I'm not a mind reader; nor could I play a mind game even with instructions. I'm VERY world traveled; intelligent; and versatile. I'm easily pleased; laid back (meaning easy to get along with) tolerant; careful; great sense of humor; and can easily laugh and poke fun at myself and my own shortcomings and experiences in life. I enjoy a candlelit dinner I made myself at home for you more than going out to a fast food restaurant; but when I go out; I want to go to a nice place; and dress for it. My wardrobe consists of military clothing right now; so I'd need some help stocking up on suits. I'm a blue jeans kind of guy; but I enjoy dressing sharp as well. As far as family life goes; I'm a good father; husband; and provider who never cheated on his spouse; even when the opportunity and justification were there. My house had a revolving door when I was overseas; which was for basically every conflict the US has been involved with for the past 13 years. I never; ever cheated on my ex. I believe that chivalry is a way of life. I just need to find the right woman to make the effort worthwhile. Chivalry is a two way street. Only Chivalry for a lady means acting like one; not just playing at it when it is convenient. My mother absolutely hated my ex; simply because she could see what I could not; that while I was dedicated to her; my ex was simply dedicated to herself; to fulfilling her wants and needs and anyone else's wants and needs did not matter to her. Of course; you never believe your parents

About you

I would prefer that you were between 24 and 40; under 5'5'; under 130 pounds; and a professional; possibly a doctor; lawyer; psychologist; teacher; or something well respected. I prefer someone who is a good cook; likes to make a house a real home; who likes the outdoors; pets; and cannot stand small yappy dogs that pee all over the house. Your kids are ok with me; as I don't have custody of mine. My soon to be ex doesn't live with me. I can get an assignment at any time; so I could probably move to wherever you are; especially if you live in Europe. I would prefer a woman from the Russian federation or eastern Europe; Lithuania; Latvia; Estonia; or any of the other Baltic states; but the mideast is also ok. I had a great time for the 410 days I spent in Saudi Arabia during the first Gulf War. I hold women from eastern Europe and Russia in extremely high esteem; as they are far and above the best women I have ever met; and have the same values of family; faithfulness and openness that I have. I want a life mate; my other half; my soul mate; for the rest of my life. I want you to be attractive; in shape; sportive; interesting; spontaneous; an inventive lover; and smarter than I am. I am tired of self serving women who have no education; refinement; manners; self discipline; education; and morals; who constantly need their self esteem propped up by someone else. Co-dependent women can look somewhere else. However; if you are blunt; truthful; hate lies and deceit; and are ready for a 50-50 relationship and can back it up; I'm interested. If you can support what your husband's objectives and goals are in life; you are my ideal. I will do the same for you. I always have; always will. If you have a drive to succeed in whatever you do; patience; and can accept someone the way they are; versus spending a lifetime trying to change them into someone else..a fantasy man; then you might be the one I've been looking for. I'm looking for a wife; lover; best friend; possible mother for my kids; and second half all in one person. I will dedicate my life to you if you can do the same for me. I would prefer that you could keep a clean house; and we can split the household chores and cooking. I love to cook for the ones I love; and I'm very good at it. However; pastries and desserts I am absolutely horrible at