About me

Spending time outdoors is what I love to do and socializing with friends at a barbeque or easy get-together is my idea of fun. I'm definitely NOT a high-maintenance guy. When I set a goal; I make sure I meet it. I am very honest and sincere. I find dishonesty a turn off. I am not into mind-games; and hope to find someone who just wants to take life one day at a time; as I do. I love the idea of growing old with someone special. I am a very warm and affectionate person; and not afraid to show it. Well hi ! And it seems as we all get older; it's much tougher to meet anyone. Good or Right For Us. I realize nobody can be exactly the way we hope them to be cuz " nobody is perfect " But I just want honesty; and affection; and common ground; as to where we're wanting to go; as in future wise and a good connection; an attraction as well always helps - both emotionally and physically. And with saying that; not to forget kindness; and mutual respect for one another; no matter what happens. And one other thing that's quite important to me; is that if / when I meet someone of interest; that sex is not something that's rushed right away. Sure sex is a beautiful and special way to show ones feelings; but with it; there must be trust; respect committment; patience and of course LOVE. In order to really draw close to someone like me; you must ease yourself into my life; let me get to know you; and until I get the feeling that you're here for the long run; not just for some fun. Being thoughtful; and giving lots of kisses and hugs. And I absolutely love holding hands and just necking; like love sick teenagers ! I want an old fashioned kind of love and when it comes to more playful intimate matters... it'll happen when it happens and when I'm sure there is a strong bond between us. But not before. As the song by Bryan Adams goes: " I wanna know you inside out. " And heaven forbid; if you break my heart. Cause heyyy; haven't we all been lead on; and let down and just hurt enough ? Well I have. I admit to being lonely; but not so lonely that I'll just settle for just anyone matter how she treats me; etc. It's just tough finding that Special person. It's like an endless search for that one missing piece of a puzzle; being my life. And until I find it / Something will remain missing and I will have only 1/2 a heart till I find her.

About you

A first date....well to put it simply....something easy a quiet candle lit dinner in a nice secluded(romantic)place where my date and i can get to know one another. then maybe take in a movie...of course there are many options depending of whom u are with.. afterall.. it takes two to make decisions to decide how the evening will go. See where it goes from there. What I look for I guess in a person is what kind of qualities they have...not by what they own. NO GAMES......just is......that's it.....just simple!