About me

Hi! I am a positive; optimistic woman with many interests. I love music (all kinds; especially oldies/alternative/R&B); movies (except "chick flicks"--ugh!); reading (except romance novels--double ugh!); photography; cooking (I'm an awesome cook--anything from Asian to Soul Food); and other interests. I have a rich; full; happy life and want to find someone to share it with. I am not a gold member yet; so I can only see the prepared messages from free members; unless you are a gold member. Take care; and I hope to hear from you soon.

About you

I am looking for a man who is independent and strong; but will let me help him through the bad times when he needs me; a man who still remembers the joy of being a child (without being childish); a man who will laugh with me (not at me); a man who will love my body; mind and soul; a man who will let me be me. I don't want to complete someone (1+1=2; right?)